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Saturday, June 27, 2015

Our Constitution has been hijacked



If you really want to know how I feel - I will share it with you - when the US Constitution was written a couple hundred years ago, there was a legitimate presumption that our newly founded country, the United States of America would be a morally straight and religiously sound country with equally morally straight and religiously sound individuals elected or appointed to be in key government positions and maintain the growth, the values and the morality of our land. This has changed.

The Constitution has been hijacked and not by one party or another but rather by the political will of those who don't operate on morally sound or religiously sound basis and instead of relying on these principles, they have drifted so far away they are now making the laws to apply immorally and irreligiously for those who live here except those who embrace these new standards.

What is next is unexplainable or unexpectedly bizarre as there is no order of morality or religiously sound foundation to execute from as those in position to make changes, have their own agenda and not concerned about being morally straight or religiously sound.

You have to ask who hijacked our Constitution - I say the Congress - the President - the Supreme Court and the Corporate world who have more power than the people themselves. The electoral vote has been altered to mean less for the populace vote and the laws are being interpreted to suit current political will as the President signs executive orders like EO never before created or designed to circumvent the Constitution. We are losing the war on morality and the reason is our foundation has fallen victim to greed, corruptive and greedy behaviors, apathy, war mongering, immorality etc.

Thursday, June 18, 2015

A country Divided by Hate

This seems to be the case - maybe not for all - but for many who spew the hate freely and with total disregard for the collateral damage incurred by those who are innocent and vulnerable

 

Sunday, June 7, 2015

Grace - Charis - the meaning for some and living the meaning the best we know how



Living with Grace



We have reached the time to re-examine the word of “grace” and what it could mean to many of us if interpreted it be done and by the way we think it ought to be done. To learn the definition written by mankind is to use discretionary decision making as to what your own belief is, the strength of your faith and the wisdom in your heart. 

“Charis” is a focus of salvation. In Greek mythology, a Charis is one of the Charites (Greek: Χάριτες) or "Graces", goddesses of charm, beauty, nature, human creativity and fertility; and in Homer's Iliad, Charis is the wife of Hephaestus. Charis was also known as Cale ("Beauty") or Aglaea ("Splendor"). Charis is also the Spartan name of a Grace.

To learn the definition of God's grace, it is wise to understand the Greek and Hebrew words behind this term. A prominent Old Testament word describing God's grace is ‘chesed’. This word speaks of deliverance from enemies, affliction, or adversity. It also denotes enablement, daily guidance, forgiveness, and preservation.

"What is grace? In the New Testament grace means God’s love in action towards men who merited the opposite of love. Grace means God moving heaven and earth to save sinners who could not lift a finger to save themselves.
Grace means God sending His only Son to descend into hell on the cross so that we guilty ones might be reconciled to God and received into heaven. ‘(God) hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin, that we might be made the righteousness of God in him’" (2 Corinthians 5:21).

"In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace" (Ephesians 1:7).

"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do" (Ephesians 2:8-10).

"For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ" (John 1:17).


Saturday, June 6, 2015

Road Rage – a path to self-destruction and possibly ending sitting the night in jail



Road Rage – a path to self-destruction and possibly ending sitting the night in jail


Traffic congestion may be a contributing factor to driver frustration and road rage. Road rage is aggressive or angry behavior by a driver of an automobile or other road vehicle. Such behavior might include rude gestures, verbal insults, deliberately driving in an unsafe or threatening manner, or making threats. Today, unlike the days of yesteryear, aggressive drivers have turned our city streets and freeways into free-for-all battle zones or gladiator pits. 

One driver pitted against the other for reasons beyond common sense. Armed with guns, and pepper spray to eggs and water bottles, there is no holds barred for this new kind of road rage as every driver involved delves themselves into a ‘high-noon’ situation with other drivers and confront cops aggressively when they try to intervene or restore order. 

An epidemic growing still into pandemic proportions, the rage seems to becoming so serious, laws are being changed to address these destructive behaviors. Every year the rate of incidents climb us as is the count of injuries, assaults and homicides related to such dangerous behaviors out in our streets and freeways. However, this fury has shown no signs of subsiding or slowing down any time soon. 

Road rage can be any encounter between drivers versus other drivers but is extended to passengers, mere spectators, bicyclist, and other individuals who happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. Road rage can be a moving violation, a parking lot incident where the vehicle is vandalized or damaged, a stalking situation where someone is followed home and then victimized or assaulted. 

The list is too long to cover all but the fact remains, road rage is happening and its real. Renamed from the tag given previously, ‘aggressive driving’ no longer takes the perception by the media as ‘road rage’ does. What has appeared is an attitude of being a ‘vigilante behavior’ to make a wrong right with another wrongful act with all involved being wrong in the letter of the law. 

This madness to inflict some kind of retribution or punish others is driving is growing at exponentially magnitudes but AAA or the highway agencies in various states are not tracking this as a data report. Evidence shows self-destructiveness in many ways of losing self-control and usually starts with ‘hand signals or gestures’ that escalates into physical violence or even shooting at each other. 

This kind of ‘intimidatory driving’ starts as verbal abuse and escalates quickly. Attacks on people and vehicles are being reported whereas before, none such events were logged down by any public safety agency or AAA support groups. Some conflicts are caused by erratic or reckless driving given the offended party an opportunity to express their dislike for these driving practices by flipping the ‘bird’ to another person.

Secondly, there could be an encounter of the worse kind, when decals, signs or other visible preference over a sport or team initiates conflict while on the road. Lane changing, speeding and excessive tailgating all contribute to the anger. 

This appears to be more of a personality trait than a crime but nevertheless, people are getting hurt or killed by people motivated to be aggressive and inflict some kind of punishment to the others. 

Expressing anger while behind the steering wheel is normal. What is abnormal is when it goes beyond the screaming, yelling, muttering or stuttering to tell the other person what they are thinking and initiating more aggressive behaviors. It comes down to lack of proper social functioning skills and lack of coping with the environment they are driving in. 

Wikipedia identifies several issues that manifest road rage. They are:
·         Generally aggressive driving, including sudden acceleration, braking, and close tailgating
·         Cutting others off in a lane, or deliberately preventing someone from merging
·         Chasing other motorists
·         Flashing lights and/or sounding the horn excessively
·         Yelling or exhibiting disruptive behavior at roadside establishments
·         Driving at high speeds in the median of a highway to terrify drivers in both lanes\
·         Rude gestures (such as "the finger"
·         Shouting verbal abuses or threats or intentionally causing a collision between vehicles
·         Hitting other vehicles or hitting or assaulting other motorists, their passengers, cyclists, or pedestrians
·         Exiting the car to attempt to start confrontations, including striking other vehicles with an object
·         Threatening to use or using a firearm or other deadly weapon
·         Throwing projectiles from a moving vehicle with the intent of damaging other vehicle

Sometimes this lack of control is described as "basically a maladaptive reaction to an identifiable psycho-social stressor that interferes with social functioning which may include sharing the roadway with another driver. One may feel misunderstood and claim dominance other the other by expressing anger at another driver. 

Road rage can be controlled. Aggressive drivers are under better control than drunk drivers and thus have the capabilities to correct their behaviors before it inflicts too much damage or calculated embarrassment or humiliation. It is fair to say that road rage has become our number one fear rather than drunk drivers on the streets. 

It is also likely true that there is now an epidemic out there of running red lights creating much of the conflict. Installing red light cameras can solve some of these problems but the others are left up between driver versus drivers as they compete for their share of the roadway they are occupying and taking control of one way or another.


A less traveled road



A less traveled road 

We all know how to avoid making decisions and walking away from our problems. Confrontation is such an ugly thing to deal with thus we solve our problems by walking away and never looking back.
Unfortunately, walking away has a very high price you pay. It doesn’t do anything for your self-understanding and destroys self-esteem, confidence and changes in your life. In fact, it does quite the opposite and hampers your ability to grow mentally and spiritually.
Thus it is best to confront and solve your problems so you can travel the road less traveled. Walking alone can be beneficial as is walking in a group if that group understands you and has your best interest in mind.
Walking the road less traveled will mean confrontation and suffering is at hand and those near you, must try to be patient and understand you. This relationship must be reciprocal and beneficial to grow positivity and better spirits.
Compatibility, independency, and learning to distinguish the differences is important is solving our problems. Self-understanding is the key to recognizing your own abilities and power. It must allow you to deal with and understand your own ideas, vision and insights or dreams. It is all relevant to your personal, mental and spiritual growth.
Learning how to deal with blame, forgiveness, love and self-love are important elements of your life. Knowing yourself is more important than we think it is as it is the core value of who we are. It is an instrumental and fundamental part of growing up so we need to do it gradually and deliberately pay attention to how we solve our problems.
Confrontation, self-discovery and a close examination of our complexities in our own lives gives us the tools to be better decision makers down the road. This journey is an enlightening opportunity to grow in belief and in spirit.
Believe in yourself but be prepared for the paradoxical nature of your belief and your life’s experiences. Nothing is what it appears to be and what appears to be may not be the reality you are facing.
Know the differences between good and evil, know which road to take. The high road can lead to overcoming your own narcissism and putting your perspectives in focus as you deal with matters of important all your life.
Coming to terms with life and death, love and sadness, loved and being love, hate and being hated, is living with a paradox we all have to face sometime in our lives. The road less traveled deals with choices we make every day personally and professionally. The ethical choices we make affects you, me and all those around you.
Life’s choices on making productive patterns work instead of destruction in your life. Avoid the patterns of self-absorption, callousness, manipulation and becoming too materialistic in nature you become entrenched in a road that demonstrated routine behaviors we do not recognize as being civil or kind, but rather dramatic and unwelcomed to many who see this as an ugliness in character.
Focus on your journey for better experiences. Share with others what you have been blessed with or learned. Participate in community building and joining together minds, energies, creativity and productive processes which may overcome our prejudices, our transcending differences of opinions and learn to accept love ourselves as well as each other.
Never wander off this path for the path is different than the journey. Staying on the less traveled road is taking the right road. The high road and the moral road. It is connected to life that allows us to achieve a wholeness in successes, maturity and spiritual growth in our life.